When I write.................

I wrote these lines a long time back, but would like to share it with the world now ,This blog will keep growing :

To start with a couplet on my life which I wrote when it was the darkest phase:
ऐ ज़िन्दगी इतना ना सताया कर
की तुझसे लगे मौत बेहतर

After much of Self Realisation I have accepted the point that I am a BAD HUMAN BEING,
Do you know why:
Because I keep on thinking about the pains inflicted on me by others, but tend to forget the pains I have given to others.

One on love............which I am experiencing now
I heard,I read that falling in love is a deadly disease but I am suffering from a deadlier one - I am not able to fall in love.

I feel you are to certain extent what the world makes you...........or may be the circumstances.

Love is the greatest weakness one can suffer from, it is more deadlier than Cancer......it does not have 1st, 2nd or last stage.

Dadar Biye..........

Rikin is my only elder brother, so there is a special attachment between us, we share a very special bonding.Sorry Rikin, but you are the one who taught me how to smoke.
Well I heard the news from my Mom that he is getting married, so I was thrilled.
The very next morning while I was travelling to office I got a call from Rikin inviting me
to his wedding.He asked me to take few days leave.The wedding was to take place on 22nd Feb 2008.
Well I went straight to my PM and asked for leave.The leave was granted.I was very excited while booking the ticket to KolKatta.The one thing that I demanded from Rikin was a DANCE PARTY, and he said " Toke sob kichu arrange korte hobhe" meaning "You have to arrange everything"(I will write a few words on the Dance Party later).
I reached Kolkatta on 21st Feb, early morning.The weather was pleasant and I liked it.I took a taxi from the railway station, after bargaining the fare which has become a custom in that area.
The taxi driver was a sardar and had an experience of driving taxi on the streets of Kolkatta for more than two decades.
Travelling through the streets of kolkatta in the early morning was quite an experience and refreshed many memories attached with the city.I used to visit the city quite often in my childhood days but now it is impossible due to my heavy schedule.The journey from the railway station to Rikin's house took 40 to 45 mins.
I got a warm welcome at my aunts house (Rikin's Mom is my Fathers's Sister).On 21st night we(BasuDa(Rikin's friend),Rikin and myself) started packing the presents for BhabhiMa(I call her so lovingly) and her family members from 10 pm to 1 am at night.It was a tiring job as we had to pack the gifts and then match them with the list and write the names of the bride's family member.
Pic : At Rikin's house..........before going to Bhabhima's place. (Click on the PIC to get an enlarged view)
But I got a nice sleep that night.Next morning we had to go to Bhabhima's house with the presents.Her house was also in kolkatta but far from Rikin's house.
We carried the presents with us-which is known as TOTWO(forgive my spelling mistake) in bengali. We all were given a warm welcome at BhabhiMa's house and got lots of sweets to eat ---- yummy!! I also played few pranks on her.
I got to see and meet BhabhiMa for the first time and I must admit that Rikin is a helluva lucky guy to get such a beautiful wife, she has much resemblance with bengali film actress - Aparna Sen.
His wedding was a wonderful event and we had loads of fun at Bhabhima's house that night during the "Basor Ghor"- an event where the Groom and his friends spend a night at the Bride's house and they have fun singing, dancing and cracking jokes - this is very popular in bengali culture.But, the one thing that we did the whole night was -- laugh,laugh and laugh.Yup, there was one more thing that we did - we were searching for specific talent in each other.
The next morning it was the Vidai Ceremony - so lots of tears :( sob Sob........
Well that night we had a Dance Party at the terrace where we danced to lots of songs.But Rikin I must complain your friends dont know how to dance.............;) - give them some Salsa classes.
The reception party was held at a place near to our house.It was beautifully decorated with flowers , crystals , some chandeliars.
I wore a lovely Sherwani which I bought in Bangalore and many times I was mistaken as the Groom.........ohhhhh nooooooo.
Well gotta see many beautiful bengali girls but not even a single one who could steal my heart out.......shiiiiiiit.
The couple was looking very good (made for each other) that day, especially.
I enjoyed a lot ---- lots of photographs taken, hot and good food,Baskin & Robins icecreams and good people to interact with.
And moreover I got to see my parents and brother after a long interval of time, so I was the happiest person on earth.
Well bidding adieu was a difficult task but had to do so, as Bangalore was waiting for me.I enjoyed a lot in your wedding Rikin, really .................a lot.